How long does it take after getting married to fall out of love?

what is that blabber? are u pretending to be a new carry bradshaw ? u fall out of love if u fell in love not with the real person but with your projected image. your fantasy. then, when reality strikes u finally wake up and realise that this person is not the one who u wanted. that's how u fall out of love. so my advice as a happily married woman STILL IN LOVE and having all those erflies after 3 years of marriage - date with open, not closed eyes. i am still in love cos this is still the person i fell in love with. no disappointment whatsoever. and he just becomes better and better ( i don't know whether it is possible when he already was perfect when we started dating). and i don't want to be monogamous. when u have perfection u value it