So lost....can anybody help me? advice? please?

you poor thing.. its very hard to watch but if he wanted to b with this girl don't you think it would have happened before now. i had the same problem and ended up on my own because just like u i ignored his friend and we all listen to our friends... so he will listen to her if your been nasty. tell yourself he is lucky to have you and don't let on ur upset over her.